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Ben Affleck has moved on from his much-derided career-stalling relationship with Jennifer Lopez to marry a woman who seems her polar opposite in many ways. Jennifer Garner is relatively free from pretension and seems genuinely kind, if a little ditsy at times. (We can't always be signing her praises.)

Garner has made fun of herself for even small moments of being demanding, saying in a recent Glamour interview that she had to check herself when she found that she was slightly miffed that she had her makeup done after someone else. "Ben's in Africa studying malaria and visiting slums with a lack of potable water and maternity wards where many women have HIV. So would I really put my energy into worrying that I'm second to get my makeup done? When you think about the bigger picture, it's hard to not have some perspective." Lopez, on the other hand, sends lists of demands to hotels where she's staying that rival many concert riders for big stars.

So Affleck probably feels like he dodged a bullet in marrying and fathering a child with such a lovely low-key woman. He's not above acknowledging his ex's happiness, though. Lopez has managed to stay with her third husband Marc Anthony for an incredible three years and now she's pregnant with up to two babies. Affleck sent her a friendly note to congratulate her on the pregnancy and let her know how much he enjoys fatherhood. His daughter with Garner, Violet, will turn two next month:

Despite telling "Details" magazine that his relationship with the Latin superstar "was probably bad for my career," Ben sent a personal message to Jennifer and hubby Marc Anthony extending his best wishes, say sources.

Ben, now married to Jennifer Garner, "raved how fatherhood has left him thrilled - and he said he knows what a great mother J.Lo will be," the source said. "While the two have had little communication since their highly publicized breakup, Jennifer was deeply touched by Ben's heartfelt message."