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I had many friends in similar situations, and I for one don't believe in abortion. So I would never give you the advice to abort the baby. I would rather see you and her have the baby and then give it up for adoption. Also, don't persuade her into a decision she is going to regret. If she wants the baby, she has every right to have the baby. It is just a responsibility that comes with the actions that you made. You are 19yrs old, and most likely out of High School. If you don't have a job, then I suggest you start looking for one. My sister had her baby when she was 19, and that was five years ago. She and my little niece are doing just fine. I think you should tell you parents as soon as possible. I never liked the notion of waiting till the last minute to tell them. They may or may not be upset at first, but a lot of parents eventually come around. You are an adult, and they need to treat you like one. I really hope things work out for you. Always think optimistic, a baby can bring tons of joy to someones life. I myself am dying to be a father. But that has not yet fallen on my lap. Things will always happen for a reason. The best thing to do is talk to your girlfriend and eachother's parents. Make sure everyone is on the same page as to what decision you will make. Best of luck sweetie ; )